Good morning! This week’s #WednesdayWisdom is about handling setbacks.

The rough side of the mountain molds you and shapes you into a person who can travel much further in life. The blemishes, scars, and setbacks are what give you the character to take you places other people are too soft and smooth to go.

In Chop Wood, Carry Water, Joshua Medcalf says, “Winning the lottery skips the valuable process of going up the rough side of the mountain. Instead of being forced to learn and develop the skills necessary for creating and sustaining success, they arrive at the top without any of what it takes to stay there. They never learned the work ethic, persistence, and grit needed to overcome the inevitable challenges that life throws in their way.”

Setbacks are temporary events – and they are events that can teach you important lessons!

Here are some examples of setbacks:

In John Wooden’s first seventeen seasons at UCLA, his teams appeared in the NCAA Tournament five times and posted a record of three wins and nine losses.

Bill Gates’ first company, Traf-O-Data (a device which could read traffic tapes and process the data), failed miserably. When Gates and his partner, Paul Allen, tried to sell it, the product wouldn’t even work.

Stephen King’s first novel was rejected 30 times. King gave up and threw his first book in the trash. His wife, Tabitha, retrieved the manuscript and urged King to finish it. Now, King’s books have sold over 350 million copies and have been made into countless major motion pictures.

Not one record label would sign Jay-Z.  He created his own label: Roc-A-Fella Records. Forbes has estimated his net worth at $500 million, and TIME ranked him at one of their 2013 Most Influential People in the World.

Vincent Van Gogh only sold one painting in his lifetime. Even though he made no money, he still painted over 900 works of art.

Steven Spielberg couldn’t get into the film school of his choice. He was rejected from USC twice. He is now a trustee of the university.

J.K. Rowling was a divorced, single mom living on welfare when she had the idea for the Harry Potter books. She walked her baby in its stroller until it fell asleep, then rushed to the nearest café to get out as many pages as she could before the baby woke up. She is now revered as the creator of a global franchise and one the richest women in the world.

Albert Einstein, Alexander Graham Bell, Leonardo da Vinci, Thomas Edison, Walt Disney and Winston Churchill are all said to have displayed signs of learning disabilities. They did poorly in school. They were told they were talentless, unteachable, and that they would never amount to anything beyond “mediocre.”

Beethoven began to lose his hearing at the height of his career and eventually became completely deaf. He sawed the legs off his piano so he could set it on the floor and feel the vibrations as he played. His Symphony No. 9, of which he never heard a single note, is one of the best-known works of classical music.

Do not begrudge the tough times – they are necessary to make you heartier and more valuable and your life more worthwhile.

Tough times never last – everything comes to pass.

How are you going to turn your setback into a comeback?